I am one who never enter a relationship with lies. Why would someone lie when you will eventually be found out? It doesn't make sense to me.
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I am one who never enter a relationship with lies. Why would someone lie when you will eventually be found out? It doesn't make sense to me.
If I enter a relationship with a person that has a good personality and spends money on funny stuff, and turns out they are broke, I'm leaving, not because they are broke per sé, but because I take care of my money, little or much, I don't live above my means, I can't imagine sharing finances with someone that would rather stay broken than living within their means.
If I enter a relationship with a rich person and that person one days just says "I was testing you all this time, I'm actually rich" I'm also leaving, I don't care if the other person is rich because that is not my money. If they think so little of me they do something stupid like that, I'm leaving.
if they keep a secret that they were testing me, they never pretended to be poor and have false problems and one day just so happen to come up that they are rich, I might stay just bc as I said, I don't care about money, I would be like "oh, and you have money? nice" but a test? lying to see what I would do?, hell no.
For your first paragraph, I want to ask: Do we still have women that share their money with their men these days? All I have heard and seen are women keeping their money as my money while the men money as our money.
Idk others, but in my home all the money my mom and dad make is the house money. For me the concept of my money your money doesn't exist in marriage. Most of the families I know and most of my friends operate under the same belief.
As boyfriend and girlfriend is different, everyone has their own money.
And again, me and the people I surround myself with believes in sharing, no men buying everything, no 50/50 either. Simply who invites pay, who can pay pays, who has more pay more, whatever works
On your second paragraph, I commend you for your honest approach to life, most ladies of today wouldn't care if they were lied to when money is involved.
Yeah, I don't wanna be bought, that's why I don't care about money. If a person decides spend money on me I don't owe them anything for that, same if I decide to gift something to someone.
The price is not what makes gifts important, it's the thought.
Idk why there is women that don't want to be objectified but allow men to buy them 🤷
Third, if they never pretended to be poor or have false problem, I don't see a test there. They simply allowed you discover who they really are on your own.
They could just be silently observing... But yeah, that wouldn't be a test, just getting to know someone as a person.
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