I'm just soaking in this message. there is so much here.
have you ever seen that little animation clip of the mom taking care of the baby and then the years go by... and just as you described.
And then your son, and your father... wow. that must have been. in some ways so hard. because you want to celebrate when you're in mourning.
but in some ways such a gift - because you CAN celebrate WHILE you're in mourning.
life goes on, doesnt it. and we take them with us.
i'm gonna look for that animation for you. i think you'll like it...
well - i just looked all over for 20 minutes. I can't find it. but i'll keep trying!!!!