Coincidence...or are you really me, but 13 years younger, and not as brown? Lol.
It's one of those things that (for me) probably should have just happened by accident. I probably overthought it in mt twenties and then (due to my focused nature) prioritised other things in my thirties. There's other elements to it but I'm not inclined to write them on the blockchain. The long and short of it is there was no children.
Now, well I'm not inclined to be one of those old dads so whilst it is possible to have children still (viable even) I'm 53 and totally fit AF but I don't want to be one of those old dads who can't keep up with the kid. I also don't know if I'll live a full term to be honest and so it's best I leave the kids to other people. I still practice making them though, just in case. 😉
I respect you and your partner's decision, it's actually responsible to make it, meaning to actually decide as that conscious decision will mean no (or little) regret later.
I've not had a bad life...travelled extensively, had the things I've wanted and still do, and generally have led an exciting and fulfilling life...Would kids have changed it? Surely, yes, better or worse? Who knows...It just would have been different. I'm ok with it though, other than those elements I mentioned in this post. Life has been good, and will be moving forward from here, as with yours also I'd guess.
Who knows, I might be your Minimi :) hahaha
Again, exactly my thoughts. If it would have just happened I would be happy with it but planning it now seems a bit strange to me. If it doesn´t work we created a new problem in our life.
I be honest when it comes to kids, I´m very good with kids and they always like me and I would love to enjoy the good moments but then I see that kid in the supermarket screaming non stop and I remember why I do not have any as I think I could not deal with stuff like that.
Oh I had an awesome life so far and hope it goes on for a couple more years :)
We most likely get a dog or two as soon as we settle somewhere.
The screaming kid in the supermarket is never pleasing right?
I think it's best just to make a good life, live it well and if that doesn't involve kids then so be it. There's always pets, as you mention.