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RE: It wasn't meant to happen

Sometimes things happen in a very unexpected way, I did not think about motherhood, everyone in my family saw me as a person who would never be a mother, even my friends saw me that way, when I was 14 and 16 years old, two doctors Different people told me that due to PCOS and my retroverted uterus it was almost impossible for me to ever get pregnant, honestly at that age it wasn't important to me, life went on and I was focused on my studies, but at 25 I had a boyfriend and I did not use any contraceptive method and I got pregnant, it was a strange shock, I had already gotten used to the idea that I was never going to have a biological child, also that boyfriend did not turn out to be a good person, he cheated on me, after finding out about the deception I found out that I was pregnant (I found out that despite the medical problems I am very fertile), so I decided to continue with the pregnancy and be a single mother. I never imagined that things would happen that way but that's how it did, I love my son even though it was an unplanned child, I focus every day on being the best mother I can even though sometimes it hurts because one day I will have to answer all the questions make me my son Many people say that he is a mini me because of his talent for crafts, but only time will tell how his adult personality will be.

I'm sorry that even if you wanted to have a child, that moment has not arrived, I see you still young to be a father, my father was 61 years old when I was born, I know I would like him to be alive now, but enjoy my father and not I would change it for nothing in the world, I am grateful that he had me even though he was older because I had the opportunity to meet him and I have the best father I could have had

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Your story has elements of sadness in it although I think overall it is a very happy story as you have your son and the opportunity to help him be the best version of himself he possibly can be; you'll give him a good grounding and then it's up to him to carry on with it. You seem to be a very switched on woman and I think you'll explain things to your son in the right way and at the right time.

Thank you very much for thinking that way about me, I hope to have the most sincere answers when my son asks about his father. I hope he understands my reasons, although I will always be afraid that he will reproach me for something, I love my son very much and I know that he feels that love

I don't know him or you, however I feel confident that you'll raise him in a way that leaves him able to see the facts and understand the situation. You know what I mean? I think he will accept what you say, your reasons, and simply be happy to be your son.

I have seen many stories like this, love is powerful, enjoy your son's love