Hello friends of the Weekend Experiences community, I hope you are well today. I had a long time that I did not share something in this community and I saw the publication of a person here in the community and that motivated me to enter one of the topics proposed by @galenkp where I chose the one that caught my attention and that I would like to describe in this post. The question I would like to answer is about what mystery I would like to solve or understand, one of the things that have always caught my attention is to understand the human being, we are too complex and each one is different in its own way, but I would like to understand why there are people who seem to have it all end up taking drastic decisions such as ending his life.
What mystery would you most like to solve or understand? Explain what and why. Use your own photos.
Recently a very intelligent and handsome young man from my country with a life that seemed perfect and with a beautiful family decided to take the terrible decision to be no longer in this world, this made a great impression both for his family and also for people who did not know him until now after the news of his death. I know that having money, luxuries, good physical appearance and having people who are close to him can make it seem that the decision this young man made was something that I still do not understand and feeling close to the subject of mental health, it really touched my heart to know that someone who seemed to be a great person ended his life that way. There are many things I wonder about mental health, I wonder what people think before they die, what they feel, what they remember of all their life stories, it is hard for his family not to be with him anymore but how much this young man had to suffer in silence to get to that point, mental health is often taken lightly when there are people who show signs long before they are not feeling well, I wonder how hard it becomes to even breathe for these people, I can also say that I was in a very dark time in my life where I did not see sense in anything, I felt a lot of emotional pain, I was very scared, but thanks to my family, to myself for having enough strength to ask for help I can say that I am better than I was years ago, I would also like to understand why people are certain that the person who commits suicide did not believe in God or lacked faith, it is something that sounds so painful because only people who have gone through a situation of anxiety or depression can understand that our brain is not working properly and it is not our fault, sometimes having a disorder can come from something biological and something that I always have in mind is that people affected emotionally do not want to be like that but it is such a big weight that they do not know how to carry it. I would like to understand why people find it so hard to understand that we are not always going to be ok in life but still everyone does the best they can to get better and I know there is always hope to get better so don't ever give up. 💜
All the text in this publication is my own.
All the images were edited with Canva and taken with my Realme phone 📱
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It's a tough thing to deal with, for those left behind and the person themselves leading up to the decision and the final act. Unfortunately, those remaining behind may never understand and the best we can do is remember the person well.
Thanks for joining in, I appreciate it, and I'm pleased to read you had the courage to confront your own issues and overcame them.
Thank you for reading my post, I appreciate it very much, yes it is hard to see someone suffer for their mental health and going through that just makes it even harder, I feel grateful to have my family and know that they will always want to see me well. Sending you big hugs and have a happy day. 💜
If one looks hard enough there's often a reason to keep going,but sadly some don't see it. Family is a good reason, but I like to think that each person can find enough within themselves to continue to. Alas, I have lost many to suicide and it always makes me a little angry that they didn't ask for help, (or take it when offered) and that they chose an "easier" path.
Anyway,good post, thank you, and maybe we'll see you back again.
Right, we are not in their shoes to know why they have to end their life that way, but all we can do is understand them. Some already sense that there is something wrong with one person, but often times, they will just laugh and even condemned them. And this is what's harsher. That's why some people don't bother to ask for help anymore, because they know, they will just make fun on their misery. But what's more painful is when your own family couldn't understand you at all. 😐
It is difficult my friend, to understand that something is not right emotionally in us is a long and hard road to travel and even harder if you do it alone without family support. Fortunately there is more talk nowadays about mental health and hopefully the suicide rates will go down. Thanks for stopping by and reading my post, appreciate your comment 🤗