It’s sad that you lived in such a state of fear over being named the father of a child you didn’t procreate. In this day and age no man has to worry himself, or harden his heart on this account, because DNA testing can prove if you’re the father or not. It doesn’t matter how much time you’ve spent with a girl, nobody can make you take responsibility for a child that isn’t yours.
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