The tenderness you express towards your mother here is gorgeous. You took the time to see things about her life that easily could have gone unnoticed with her positive nature. Yet, you looked below the surface and found a source of strength in her. One which you learned your own version of, and seem to have done well with. A great success can also be perspective, and acceptance of what we have. Thank you for sharing your story with us, don't forget to engage with at least two other members of the community as well!