We say everyday that love is a choice and we choose eachother and our kids every day. The selfishness to destroy a family is hard for me to fathom. When you decide to make a family (as long as there is no danger) you see it through to the end. You can just wake up one morning and say “oh we fell out of love and decided it’s best to quit”. Fricken scum! Sorry sensitive topic for me. But you’re right we are human and I cannot speak for anyone else’s experiences of emotions however I promised my wife that I would love her and protect her for the rest of my life and I will do just that. I love my children and her and I will never give up on them.
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The blame for the woman having this affair lies squarely on her shoulders...She is the one who chose to do what she has done, behind her husband's back destroying 27 years of marriage. Sure, there was another guy involved but he wasn't in the marriage, she was, and she chose to compromise it.
Sleeping with a life-partner, whilst carrying on an affair with someone else, living another life in fact, is a pretty low thing to do...Weak too. It's an easy option to fill a void within I suppose though, and easier than telling a partner that you want to leave the before the affair happens.
Knowing these two as I do it's going to be interesting to see how it plays out.
Thanks for commenting so personally BB. Have a great day too.