Part 01.
In life, when chatting with many male friends, they are often asked a question, why is my girlfriend sometimes unreasonable?
This question has become a big obstacle in their minds.
I don't know the reason, and there is no way to fix it.
So when girlfriends are "unreasonable," they don't know what to do at all. Sometimes it happens that if you do it well, nothing happens, but if you do it badly, there will be fights. Not to mention that quarrels hurt feelings, but also use more energy to admit mistakes and coax people, which is very headache.
In fact, this question is very simple. The reason why it becomes a problem for lovers is simply because boys and girls think about problems from different angles.
Part 02.
In fact, it's not just boys who have this problem. One of my girl friends, Sasha, also feels very puzzled.
It wasn't long before Sasha's relationship started, and the two sides were still in love. The boy had little emotional experience and was a traditional straight man.
Sasha is very optimistic about this relationship. In short, it is running for marriage.
Many ignorant behaviors of boys are very cute in her opinion.
But although Sasha thinks his sometimes clumsy behavior is cute, the boys don't fully understand Sasha's behavior. Sometimes they say that Sasha is holding on to some small issues, or even a little unreasonable.
Sasha was also very distressed, her boyfriend didn't know what he was thinking at all.
It's obviously something that can be solved with just a hug, but he has to rise to the level of principles, standards, right and wrong.
Part 03.
Why do girls sometimes "unreasonable"? In fact, there are three reasons.
Girls are more emotional than rational
Girls are mostly emotional, not rational.
Faced with a problem, girls look at it from a completely different angle than boys. Boys may think more about how to solve this problem, while girls think more about the emotional problems reflected through this problem.
Therefore, if the boy just solves the problem simply without taking care of the girl's emotions, it will definitely not satisfy the girl.
Want to prove your importance in your heart
In fact, everyone understands the truth, and girls also know how to do it in their hearts.
And they continue to choose "unreasonable" because they want to prove that she is a special existence in your heart, a very important existence.
This girl is actually a little bit insecure inside. In the face of such girls, it may not be unreasonable to let them know where they are in your heart.
I don't care about the truth itself, maybe I just want to act like a spoiled child
It is said that girls are made of water, and many boys also like gentle girls, girls who are small birds.
And girls are sometimes "unreasonable" because they don't pay attention to the truth at all, they just want to be coquettish to you and want you to coax her.
At this time, it is useless to say more, just coax.