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When I was young, the love I imagined was spending time with someone, lots of affection, special romance and special happiness.
Growing up, I really experienced a relationship, only to find that love didn't seem to be what it seemed.
Although there will be some more romantic moments, but beyond that it is just all kinds of contradictions and quarrels, and bland, not very interesting, just very trivial days.
It seems that love seems to have fallen from the altar, which makes people feel not so good.
It is even said that some people no longer want love because of this, and they feel that love doesn't seem to have any meaning.
I must admit that love is not as beautiful as imagined, but actually love is not as bad as imagined.
The nature of love is like this, it has a more beautiful side, and more than that, it's just an ordinary life.
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Attracted to each other, they feel very tempted.
There are many people in the world, but most of us feel nothing.
Until one day, when we meet someone, at first glance, we feel relatively happy, and when we get along, we feel very touched, and when we are moved by other people, that other person is also like us, and also feels. deeply moved.
There were so many people around each other, but they just had different feelings for each other.
I can only see each other in my eyes, and I just want to have each other. Except for the other party, no one can give me that feeling, and no one wants it. Can only see each other.
Wherever the eyes go, it is all the other party, and every time he looks at the other party, his eyes are full of affection.
The beginning of love is often like this. Love doesn't know what to do, but like being obsessed, will be obsessed with one person, and crazy about one person. .
It's as if, with that person, there is what we want, and that person gives us the whole.
On the surface, there seems to be no reason to like someone or be attracted to someone. Actually, we don't want so many people, but we just want other people, but precisely because the other person has something. compared to us.Same frequency or complementary things.
I want to spend the rest of my life together.
There are always people who say that liking is their own business, and the other party is free.
In fact, if we really like him and fall in love with someone, subconsciously we will want to have a future.
Just like before, I really liked freedom, and I never thought about who I wanted to be with, but after that, I also started to yearn for two people over the years. even if I lose my freedom, I will be willing.
Because of love, we will be completely possessive, we will want to have each other alone, and hope that the person beside us will always be us, not someone else.
He was absolutely unwilling to give the other party to anyone, and he couldn't even imagine how he would live without the other party.
If you really love someone, you want to know everything about the other person's past, to make up for the void that you weren't there. Every day right now, you want to spend time with other people, and about the future, it will start early. planning.
I want to have many memories of each other, and I want to continue to make more memories in the days to come.
The desire to grow old with each other, and when the time comes, they will begin to enter the wedding agenda, so that each other can enter the marriage early, stay by each other's side, and protect each other well.
A long stream of water, sharing responsibility for the future.
After a period of strength and power, love will begin to return to firewood, rice, oil and salt.
Some people may think that since then, love has disappeared and is no longer there, but the truth is that often after passion, true love, real life, has just begun.
If love is only a temporary passion, then all love will be short-lived like fireworks, and cannot be taken seriously at all.
Good love is about the heart, wanting to have a future, and more importantly, respecting each other's future. They would not damage the other party all at once, but would take responsibility on each other's shoulders day after day.
Take responsibility for this relationship, always maintain loyalty and single-mindedness, start to focus on each other's small world, work together, and find ways to make each other's life better and better.
For things like making money and housework, we have to come to an agreement on our own terms. Whenever we face a problem, we don't run or blame. We only express our own ideas, seek common ground while harboring differences, and use a mutually acceptable approach. processing methods.
Even if there will be a lot of wind and rain, holding hands tightly, standing firm by each other's side, just finding ways to solve problems, finding ways to make things develop in a good direction, and don't give up easily.
Keep this relationship as good as possible, and make this relationship as long as possible as promised.
In life, it is not easy to meet someone who makes your heart move.
There are thousands of people in this world, and after all, too many people are discordant, and after all, they are not speculative.
Only such a person, such a person, can make our hearts flutter, always longing and longing to have.
The essence of love is that in a person, we feel our own existence and meaning in life, and then we want to know more about the other person, to gain the other person, and have a future with the other person.
That person is our weakness and protector.
We were always easily influenced by each other, but also became stronger because of each other.
With each other, we always want to be better, and we always want to give each other a little bit more. The guy may not be the best, but that's what we want the most. It is more important than anyone, and everyone will replace it.
Thanks for reading
Hi @mugro. I see you're not a new user, yet you have two comments in total. You don't reply to comments, don't interact with anyone and only posting in OCD.
I'd like to let you know that there's a community for this type of topics, called Emotions & Feelings.
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hello sir sorry i wanted to reply but it was too far and i ignored it,
I rarely post, and Thanks for guiding and suggesting the community I deserve.