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RE: Opening up is hard for men. Do you agree or disagree?

in OCD2 years ago

My opinion is going to shock you, so I'm going to moderate myself :) Growing up an living in Europe means I'm coming from a different culture, where beating a child means child abuse and can lead to social services taking the children away from you and not an act of love and an educational tool, how it is seen in other parts of the world. Women are treated as equal partner, therefore every good and bad happening in life is shared with them. Obviously not everyone is like that, there are others who still think like you've described in your post.

From what I have observed throughout my life , it was okay to beat a child if he did something wrong but these days things have changed. Anyone who abuses a child in any form will have to face the law. I think it is a good initiative because the rate of child abuse in the county has reduced drastically.

Most people from Africa see women to be weak and so they mostly give them special treatment over the men.

The bottom line, no one wants a man who breaks down in tears at every small problem, but having emotions is normal and manifesting them as well. If you have a partner in life, you share everything with them and face everything together.

I totally agree with you.

Also, I'd like to suggest Rant, Complain, Talk community for this type of topics, that is a great place to discuss what you have in mind. Next time obviously, so leave this here :)

Well noted. Thank you very much.

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From what I have observed throughout my life , it was okay to beat a child if he did something wrong but these days things have changed.

That can only generate hate towards the abuser, but this is my opinion. Violence will never bring any good.

Most people think violence is the solution to everything so the cycle is very difficult to break.