There are no definitive rules, but the main ones IMHO should be engagement, honesty and selflessness.
Not everyone has the time to be on here every day, but when they do it should be to 'consume' as well as create. I think everyone can find something of interest here and should aim to make their feed entertaining. Hive can be as entertaining as other platforms and without all the ads and 'suggested content'.
Of course people want to earn, but that tends to go better when you help to build the community.
!BEER
Agre . A lot of users have the post, dump and hope for the whale mentality. They still don't understand create, consume, engage and build your network is what works in the long run.
I have exactly the opposite problem, lol. I come here to post, spot something interesting in my notifications and end up falling down a rabbit-hole of fascinating posts people have written. Then an hour later my wife tells me dinner is on the table and I hadn't got around to making the post I originally came here to do.....