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How about dear friends, in this my first post, I want to talk about doing something that is undoubtedly beginning to be recurrent in these times of pandemic, loneliness.
According to the Royal Spanish Academy, it defines loneliness as "it is the voluntary or involuntary lack of company; or also, a deserted place" let us remain with the word, voluntary.
According to studies carried out in Spain, it is mentioned that 10% of its population are alone, some voluntarily and others involuntarily. We will refer to voluntary solitude, because many people so decide, but why? Why does a person want to be away from society? The answer can be simple and crude, we have grown tired of dealing with people, we have reached a point where we feel exhausted or we are simply lazy to relate to more people, and this can be derived from the experiences we have had with people in last
They will see the human being unconsciously learns those experiences that hurt him, and personal relationships are not the exception, this means that when one or more people hurt us, we will unconsciously avoid that pain in the future, which is why we avoid personal contact.
But it is not always bad to avoid personal relationships, for all that I have mentioned, but also, because in this way we eliminate distractors that can interrupt our goals and objectives, that is why we see many successful and happy people, alone, although It seems that they are surrounded by many people, who claim to be their "friends" but when we analyze, we realize that they are only "acquaintances".
I hope this post, leads you to reflection and can give me your opinions. I leave
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Que tal queridos amigos, en este mi primer post, quiero hablar hacer de algo que sin duda empieza a ser recurrente en estos tiempos de pandemia, la soledad.
Según la real academia española, define a la soledad como "es la carencia voluntaria o involuntaria de compañía; o también, lugar desierto" quedemos con la palabra, voluntaria.
Según estudios realizados en España, hace mención que un 10% de su población se encuentran en soledad, unos por voluntad y otros de forma invluntaria.
Nos referiremos a la soledad voluntaria, debido a que muchas personas así lo deciden, pero porque? Porque una persona quiere estar alejado de la sociedad? La respuesta puede ser sencilla y cruda, nos hemos cansado de tratar con personas, hemos llegado a un punto de que nos sentimos exhaustos o simplemente nos da pereza relacionarnos con más personas, y esto puede ser derivado de las experiencias que hemos tenido con personas en el pasado
Verán el ser humano de forma inconsciente aprende aquellas experiencias que le hacen daño, y las relaciones personales no son la excepción, esto quiere decir que cuando una o varias personas nos lastiman, de forma inconsciente en un futuro evitaremos ese dolor, por lo cual evitamos el contacto personal.
Pero no siempre es malo evitar las relaciones personales, por todo lo que he mencionado, pero también, porque de esta forma eliminamos distractores que pueden interrumpir nuestras metas y objetivos, es por eso que vemos a muchas personas exitosas y felices, en soledad, aunque pareciera que están rodeados de muchas personas, que dicen ser sus "amigos" pero cuando analizamos, nos damos cuenta que solo son "conocidos".
Espero que esté post, los lleve a la reflexión y puedan darme sus opiniones.
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