I have always said that marriage is not for boys and girls but for matured people.
A lot of things go into making marriage work and some of them are patience, understanding, tolerance and selflessness. When these factors are combined with love in marriage by both partner's, then it would be quite hard to hear divorce.
Nowadays, many individuals are already with the mindset of I can opt out at any time especially when things are not rosy and with this mindset, marriage cannot work because both partners are not joined to stay but joined to part ways at the slightest sign of unpleasantness.
The only authorized factor for a divorce is when life is threatened is when violent and physical abuse occurs. The woman can separate herself for her life's sake first and then they can try to work things out but if the beatings continue then a divorce is the best choice to save the woman's life.
Asides this factor, every other form of divorce is a result of child's play and immaturity.
I hope that intending couples can sit down and map out how they want their marriage to go and work towards it. I believe that It would help reduce the rate of divorce.
My professor is at it again,
I am glad you saw this because many people will see your comment and learn from it.
For those couple, I see on reason for the divorce but things have been going on before they married and they refuse to acknowledge the red flags. I hope they can work things out too
Thanks for this amazing comment
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