I will only be at ease if it's my mother who will take care of my son. Yet, that was no longer feasible when she was busy back home. Also taking care of one of my nephews who was in kindergarten.
My husband was always like that, if I am working, my money my money. He never asks me where I spend it. He was a good provider I can say.
Besides, online shopping was the effective therapy for postpartum 😆