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Double dating is simply a way of having a romantic relationship with two people at the same time.
Double dating in our society has turned to a normal way of life for some people, to some, it's a desire for variety and excitement. They might feel like they're not getting enough from one relationship, so they seek out another to fulfill their needs.
For others, it's a fear of commitment. They might be hesitant to settle down with one person, so they keep their options open by dating multiple people, to avoid being hurt
Of course, double dating is not without it's risks, for one, it can be hurtful to the people involved
Imagine finding out that your partner is secretly dating someone else, it's a betrayal of trust that can be difficult to recover from. Double dating can also lead to emotional distress, anxiety and depression from the other partner
Many people tend to cope with double dating by communicating openly and honestly with all parties involved. This can be a difficult conversation to have, but it's essential for avoiding hurt feelings and misunderstandings, others might set clear boundaries and expectations, making sure that everyone involved knows what they're getting through.
But even with the best intent, double dating can be a recipe for disaster. It's a delicate balancing act, and one that requires careful consideration and respect for all parties involved.
Double dating is a complex issue, I must say, while it might be appealing for some, it's important to consider the risks and consequences. By being honest, respectful and communicative, we navigate the challenges of double dating and build stronger, healthier relationships
I would say double dating has ruin a long term relationship I've built
Personally, I've been involved in double dating, there was a time I was dating a guy, I loved him so much no doubt but I found out that he was secretly seeing someone, I was heart broken and hurt,
That experience made me learned negatively, the next relationship I got into, I double dated cause I was scared of being broken again, in that relationship, I didn't give myself to it, I was not so into the relationship,
I was double dating and was not still feeling the relationship, it was more like me stressing myself emotionally, I was doing all of that cause I was hurt and also scared of being hurt,
At long last I had to end up everything, cause there was no need being in two different relationship and still not finding joy in it
I didn't find it easy, but thank God is now something I would not find myself doing again
Many people find themselves double dating not because they really want to, but because they've been hurt in different ways, and is not something someone get to heal from easily, if really you were into the relationship.
I'm not in anyway encouraging people that are hurt to double date, people have different ways of handling heartbreak.
Our society today have seen nothing wrong with double dating, they've made people who happened to be in a single relationship feel like their good or sincerity will not actually pay, or with the usual talk, "I cannot be an understanding partner and be suffering" We should not allow the society to blind us with the fact that there's nothing wrong with double dating, there's no reason to back that act up
Cause there's everything wrong with double dating if you actually know what you want.
When someone cheats, they are not just breaking the trust of their partner
They are shattering their heart into a million pieces
The pain of betrayal is a wound that cuts deep and is a scar that never fully fades,
Its a reminder that the person you love and trusted could easily throw it away for a moment of pleasure
This post is more curious to me and you meant that you are in support of double dating someone right and it shouldn't be a problem if its in your shoe dating someone and also dating another person right? If so it's your decision and the post is valid and encouraging though. But keep doing the good thing if you find yourself in such way.
Smiles....that's not it
I advice you go and read through again for more clarity 😊
Thank you sir 😊
Okay oh! I understand you now my dear it's cleared, well all this it's for one condition or the other that makes that happened to you I felt your pains shall. But thank God at last you now realized that it's not making sense anymore and you have changed that act. Well it's a lesson to others out there so thanks for posting this impacting content creation it's will go a long way as well.
Yes many people use the excuse of being heart but to my own opinion double dating just like you started early is not an option for getting heald instead it makes matters waste because at times we end up falling into the crime of hurting others also, because when they find out they will be scared to love 💕 also
Love is actually a very complicated thing people use to play with around by dating multiple partners and playing with people emotions, I'm glad we're all learning from it 😊
Thanks for reading through 😊🙏
Well most people involved in double dating because of lack of trust. and some time due to material things that involve.
thanks for sharing...
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I just want us to discuss more on this mine username is @isaac kayinu..
Yeah, many people have trust issue due to the experiences they went through, and our generation have fallen in love with material things that they have used love in exchange of things that are not really necessary...
Thanks for stopping by sir🙏
Honest conversations between three people to emotionally attach themselves together..?😅
It's really a hard deal but truly our corrupt society is practicing such negativity.
Good that you didn't allow your past experience maneuver you, you almost deviated but ran back to the track line..
Thank you for sharing this with us @iamgracia2
It's pains my heart to see how our society has become insensitive to the pain of others...
Breaking hearts has become a normalized behavior, with many showing no remorse for their actions
Thanks for reading through sir 🙏😊
Actually double dating isn't a good thing. How can one cope with that, it's nothing but a lie and false relationships, the ealier one realises is better, most people haved been played not because they want too.
You're a victim and it cause you nothing but a pain!
It's obviousv today's how our society accepts it to be norm.
Thanks for sharing with us! @iamgracia2
I wish people who are prone to breaking hearts could experience the pain they cause others.
Perhaps then they would learn to empathize and change their ways. At least, they would understand the harm they've inflicted and grow from it🤧
Thanks for stopping by sir🙏
I don't encourage double dating at all. No matter how bad the experience may be, it shouldn't be a criteria to double date.
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Hmmm, I think where you started getting it wrong was the intent you had while starting your double dating stuff, you didn't do it to get to know the person better or if you guys are compatible, you did it cause you were hurt and you were doing same as a defence mechanism which isn't healthy to you especially. It's good you ended the relationship once you understood how unhealthy it got for you most especially. What does not work for you isn't yours. Thanks for sharing and I got to learn from this too.
Smiles...I love the part that says what does not work for you isn't yours
It's something most of us refused to understand, I'm glad you learned something 🤧
Thanks for stopping by 😊🙏
Truly, coping with a heart break isn't easy, especially when you it came as a result of finding out the person was double dating. However,the solution isn't in double dating as well. For what it may, if one feels like they might go through a break up again and are not ready, then it's better to not go into a relationship rather. I don't think having someone to bounce back to after a heartbreak is a healer for the heart. It's rather a complication and cancer to it.
It's good to see you didn't allow it define your character. Even if the society has made it a norm and made the right thing look foolish, I believe all know what it right and ought to be done. And so, that which is right should be done.
I HONESTLY DO NOT FANCY DOUBLE DATING EITHER. IF I HAPPEN TO BE DATING SOMEONE AND FIND OUT THE PERSON IS DOING SUCH IT IS GOING TO HURT MY FEELINGS, SO I DON'T SEE THE REASON I WOULD DO THAT TO SOMEONE.