Don't worry about them. Really not much there. I have not had much time, you missed nothing.
You need to care for you. Your wife's brother? Too many passing of late. I can remember when my friends and I would be shocked if we knew somebody that passed away, at this time in our life, it no longer shocks us. That in itself is scary. My prayers go out to you and your family, may your heart be quieted. I am so sorry for your loss, Dan. @bluemoon May he rest in peace.