When it comes to philosophical books that help us navigate today’s fire moments with a promise of calm and wisdom, Meditations by Marcus Aurelius takes the crown. Yes, I’m recommending a book written by a Roman Emperor nearly two millennia ago. And no, it doesn’t come with togas or overly complex words (well, maybe a little, but stick with me). This book is surprisingly relatable to our current world of chaos, Instagram influencers, and existential crisis.
Now, you’re probably thinking, “Meditations? Isn’t that the book where a Roman dude lectures himself about how not to freak out?” And you’re not wrong. But let me tell you why this is the self-help book we didn’t know we needed, because oh well, I particularly didn't know the value of this book until it was made compulsory to read by my home book club.
First of all, Marcus Aurelius didn’t write this book to be published. He wasn’t trying to go viral on BookTok or sell merch with “Keep Calm and Be Rational” slogans. These were his personal notes, a kind of ancient diary where he told himself to get a grip, stay humble, and not let the haters get to him. And let me just say, the man could’ve used some therapy, lol. But instead, he gave us timeless advice on how to survive life’s plot twists with dignity.
Marcus Aurelius lived through war, plagues (sound familiar?), and political drama. His whole life was one big episode of Game of Thrones, minus the dragons and awkward family reunions. Yet he constantly reminded himself to focus on what he could control: his thoughts, actions, and reactions. “You have power over your mind, not outside events. Realize this, and you will find strength.” ... (Quoted from Book 6, Section 8 of Meditations)
Translation? Stop doom-scrolling and stressing about things you can’t fix. Instead, focus on being your best self, even if that just means remembering to drink water today.
What makes Meditations shine in today’s world is its practicality. Marcus wasn’t big on fluff. He didn’t waste time pondering what color toga to wear or how many grapes a philosopher should eat before bed (at least those weren't written in the book). He dove straight into life’s big questions: How do you deal with difficult people? (Spoiler: Be patient; they’re probably struggling too.) How do you keep your ego in check when you succeed? (Answer: Remember, you’re just a tiny speck in the universe.)
Yes, the book is old, and yes, some parts feel like reading an ancient scroll of to-do list (Wake up. Be kind. Don’t lose your cool.). But isn’t that the charm? Meditations reminds us that no matter how many centuries pass, humanity’s struggles stay pretty much the same.
So, if you’re looking for a book that’s equal parts calming, inspiring, and occasionally guilt-tripping (in a good way), a free therapy for humankind, Meditations is your next read. Think of it as a long chat with a wise friend who happens to be ridiculously old but somehow gets exactly what you’re going through. And the best part? You won’t even need a toga to enjoy it, lol.
Thank you for reading!
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I will definitely read this. Lately, or let's say since the beginning of this year I've been struggling with self identity,who I am? What am I really doing? How do I become better? How can I be better?
Prioritizing activities to make me feel better instead of look better but unfortunately I've failed in trying to do the both during the first weeks of this year. And I know the year is just beginning and it's baby steps right?
I think this is one of the best things I've read this morning.i need to keep calm and keep my mind and whatever it has running through at bay. Try to control what I can and leave what I can't because results are inevitable. Almost everything all burns down to luck and how well you can preserve yourself emotionally and psychologically.
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Thank you for sharing so openly; I think a lot of us can relate to what you're going through. Self-identity and finding balance can feel like an endless puzzle, but you're absolutely right, baby steps are key. It's okay to stumble while figuring out how to prioritize both feeling and looking better; we're human, after all. And I also still make such mistakes and have such questions.
I love that you're already reflecting on how to focus on what you can control and let go of the rest, that's such a powerful mindset shift! Results take time, but the fact that you're even having these thoughts shows you're on the right track. Be kind to yourself, celebrate those small wins, and trust the process. Sending you good vibes and wishing you a year full of growth and clarity!
I will keep it in mind to add it to my library.
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Thank you so much!