Sorry My English Is Bad

in Cross Culture2 years ago (edited)

" Do you even know how smart I am in Spanish?" - Gloria from the Modern Family

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Being exposed to different people who speak different languages, makes me want to come back to my old self, telling her not to be so hard on herself.

And I also want to go back to tell everybody that, " Look, you'd get by without trying to sound British. It may impress one or two but most of the time, will leave people confused. It also doesn't mean that you're stupid if you can't have a British accent. "

English has been the international lingua franca at least from the 21st century to today. Yet these days, with the slow shift to the power house of economy, is it going to be the same in the future?

From what I know, day to day, if I have a business, I would want to start learning Mandarin, Japanese and Korean. Heck, even these days some people write instructions in Russian because now, Alexander from a village you never heard of in Russia is moving all around the world. Do they speak English? well sort-of, but mostly a broken one. This is why, they certainly could understand better if the instructions are in Russian. Hence people are making attempt to cater to them by writing the instructions and notice in Russian.

Back to present, now meeting alexanders, every manuels, tom, dick, harry in a country with a non-alphabetic script and they speak with 4 different tones. We all sort of have to adjust.

For us and them, we want to communicate to get our things done. So, since there is an imbalance between our English, broken English is the standard. Broken English does not mean it's a bad English. It just is English that are non-standarised and it might be that this English has one of these.

may be fragmented, incomplete, and/or marked by faulty syntax and inappropriate diction because the speaker's knowledge of the vocabulary isn't as robust as a native speaker. source

Even from my experience, I realized that knowing too many vocabulary and advanced English sometimes can't get my message across. It leaves the other person bewildered and frustration on my part. However though, broken English works in a country where they don't speak English as their official language.

I would say, "no spicy", " going where?", and they would say something like, " we not want". There are also some pronunciation issues but one thing I know is that they don't go around saying,

Sorry my English is bad

They would continue these despite sometimes, there are being corrected here and there.

I notice that I also don't go around saying, my Thai/whatever language I know is bad. I realized that even natives from Thai, Spanish,etc they don't mock me if I make grammatically mistake. They know it's not my first language and I am still learning.

Why can't we do the same with English learner and non-native speakers who are trying to communicate in English?

Although often, these mockery comes from our peers and back home, it comes from other students who feel superior that they know grammatically correct English and can speak like natives. I am sure if they've been outside the country by now, they'll know that sometimes it doesn't matter especially when they visit countries where the people don't even speak English. Maybe along the way, some people would just assume that the speaker grew up in an English speaking country or some sort. But that's about it.

The main takeaway is that, never apologize for it. Just keep learning and don't start a paragraph with, sorry my English is bad....

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English is not my first language too, so I don't mind if it's bad.
Since English is being used here, nobody seems to mind whether the grammar is incorrect, neither do I, lol.
However, it's funny to say that in my home country, people would make fun of someone who speaks English incorrectly.
It's unfortunate to admit that our own race treats us less favorably than other races, lol.

The greatest way to pick up new vocabulary and get practice speaking English at the same time is to interact with different people, especially the foreign ones, and communicate with them in English.

haha that's the same problem in Indonesia too. In places like Singapore and Malaysia, they have accent in their English and even some of them can't speak grammatically correct despite English being their official language. I am sure that in HK, it's like in Bangkok and every capital in SEA where people speaks with different English accent with different levels of vocabulary.

Chenglish is fun to listen to. I am often influenced by the accent here lol.
I thought Singapore is using mandarin and Malaysia has another language.. 😅..

As long as we are able to get our message across. That's what matter. Broken english or not. Even native english speakers do not have perfect grammar.

hahaha thrown in some sign language on the way too. That's what I did sometimes when the other person doesn't speak English.

I am sorry my English is bad. But I can make your day so wonderful with the sincerity of our hospitality. : )
Alexander seems to be al around the world now; )

😂 They're everywhere and started seeing important signs in Russian too. In Thailand, you see this like " No flying drone" or " no alcohol" around certain times.

One of the basis of intellectual capacity especially in Asian countries like here in the Philippines is how great you are at speaking English and other foreign languages. This is sad, to be honest.

English is not my native language and I often make mistakes in my grammar but I think as long as you're able to deliver the context of the things you want to say, it's already enough. Native English speakers won't mind as long they understand us.

Yep, most South East Asian countries values that skill. Even a lot of jobs requires its applicant to at least know basic level of English. Though in some cases, flawless English is needed in context of academia but when it comes to getting by when traveling, as long as the context is understood then that's not a problem much :)

This is so Relatable.

Our native language is Urdu but in our own country it's like a shameful thing if someone can't speak English and when someone is speaking broken English they get trolled or mock because it's not cool.

I seriously never thought it does exist in other regions as well. Have never seen a native English speaker making fun of someone who's speaking broken English or doing grammatical mistake but own people which is sad.

Maybe somewhere in future we won't have that language barriers anymore and than this won't Be a debate anymore. Who knows what's coming.

Yep. It's totally unfortunate that those harsh comment comes from our own people. It shouldn't be that way though. I think that as long as we try and can get the message across (daily life context), that should be fine.

Maybe you've seen it but I'm organizing a show on the Discord server where I try to speak both English and Turkish and sometimes my brain burns haha. But I don't say I'm sorry because my English is bad because I try my best and I try to improve myself all the time. I try to use different words. That's what we can do.

hahaha just never say that you're English is bad. Never apologize for anything tbh but keep on improving and you'll improve in no time.

How about saying I'm not good :P

Darn! You got me with this one... I'm definitely the guy who says a lot of "My English is bad" and "My Spanish is bad"... I'm not throwing that as an excuse, but more as lower the expectation of the "other side"... 😂
But, I do agree with you that most of the people on this planet talk broken English... probably more broken than mine... lol...

It may impress one or two but most of the time, will leave people confused. It also doesn't mean that you're stupid if you can't have a British accent. "

When I came to Spain, knowing very little Spanish, I had the impression that people are thinking that I'm stupid because I don't speak Spanish... It sounds weird, but that's how I felt... But, as you said, those people aren't worth having a conversation at all, so F%#$ them... lol...

It's time to stop saying your Spanish is bad :D but you know, like you said most of people on this planet talk broken English even more than us, so yeah haha.

Brilliant. With the kids I teach English to, I actually teach them to COMMUNICATE first. When people worry too much about spoken grammar, they lose confidence to actually speak. No speak, no communication and language is all about? Communication!
I am not saying grammar is unimportant, but it should never be the first consideration when learning a language.
Hope you're having a wonderful week :-)

That's a great approach Nathen! grammar is important but considering everything, I think speaking first and trying to communicate would come first. Now that I think about it, I remember when I was a kid that was my approach to learning language. I would talk in broken whatever language I learned and talked to strangers online. It sounds silly now but I learned more from there than from school xD and you too, have a wonderful week!

Very intelligent post. I love your write up