Agreed, many people (most probably) allow their lives to be pushed and pulled one way or another rather than them steering their own course because doing the latter takes more effort. Sad tlreally, but it's a choice people make for themselves.
I hope you have got some goals in place (and plans to attain them) for 2025.
I do and the three questions you have posed are a great foundation to a solid building. Really appreciate them.
Wishing you and yours a happy and prosperous “25