I have just one limiting belief, the rest are minor and it goes this way;
If I gain lots of money, I may not find a good man to marry.
Please don't blame yet. I have seen women who live miserable lives because they chase money when their friends were chasing men.
I have seen them live miserable lives alone because they choose to be wealth builders instead of living off men or prostituting.
I have seen bad guys pretend to love them because of the money in their possession.
I have seen these women think they have found love one minute, and the next minute the guy is seen on social media fucking a different woman, or cheating with random girls
I have seen these women decide not to marry and end up with no child of her own and no partner to age together.
I have seen the society feed on them negatively, abusing them at the slightest provocation, and I see them try to prove they are happy by showing their wealth and achievements. Behind those smiles, I see sad lines in their eyes, I see wishes that cannot be attained in the form of looking for a partner to spend the rest of their lives with.
Gosh, I need all three factors to function effectively. I need it.
You really need to take that belief off your mind. This may be true to some people but does not mean it would be to you.
They falling for the wrong men depends on their choice and the qualities they saw in those men.
Having money does not mean you would not have the right man to marry.
You can definitely have both. Instead find someone who shares the same dreams or goals with you or if not someone who is ready to help you grow as you do for him.
Another thing, you don't need to have all the money in the world before you let a man in your love. You will end up developing problems or these situations you have stated.
Having someone in your life when there is little to nothing does not mean there won't be something tomorrow.
Everything is based on your belief and your attitude towards it.
You can definitely have both.
Of course, after reading this, there is no way I am going to have such limiting beliefs anymore.
I was created to live in love and abundance, it is my birthright, I accept it.
Thank you very much @starstrings01
Exactly… you are welcome
Huge props to you for being aware of a limiting belief!
And I understand that all your experiences may have led you to believe what you believe. I understand the examples you've cited.
That said, there are wealthy women like Beyoncé who gained wealth first, and married a great man second. The only way they could manifest such a thing is if they had improved beliefs and soothed resistance on the topic of making money & marrying well.
Definitely food for thought.
We all do. And fortunately, all three are internal powers we can practice adjusting at any moment, as much as we find fulfilling.
Wishing you lots of joy whatever you do and thanks for sharing here! 🙏