but I have never imagined myself getting married and struggling afterwards to pay rent, school fees
Till now, a lot of us(guys) think that paying dowry and having a successful wedding is the main thing. The afterwards of the wedding is the koko.
How much is dowry that one can not even pay sef? Lol 😄
Brother... You get the gist.
Dowry is not that big a deal. People can close their eyes and do that. However, the finances it takes to run a home is insane. Guys need to start looking beyond the wedding day gragra.
That's it my brother.
In some places, dowry is below 100k!🤷