I agree... lots of people have been surprised that this didn't dissolve into a massive debate. but I really do think (call me naive) that if people just take a breath and come into discussions willing to talk.... things CAN be accomplished!
and always nice to see you hehehee
I've always taken the position things can be settled with words. It's hard to say things some might not want to hear though, in a way they'll at least listen, especially if things are already heated. It's backfired on me so many times I'm both hardened and discouraged at the same time. Pobody's nerfect.