I came across a quote "they don't know how we got here but hate us for why we are".
Most of the strong people I know go through things alone and they prefer not to bother anyone. I'm the kind to lock myself up and cry till i feel alot better before facing the world with one huge smile.
They don't know the hell or the tears you had to pass through. The betrayals, disappointment and humiliation. But I guess that is what makes us different species because "if you're able to face the world alone, there is nothing you can not do."
Which is why i don't bother replying to hate speeches or gossips. Because the disseminators only see what you have but have no idea how much you sacrificed to get it.