The majority want to experience good health, be respected, accept themselves and also have a supportive partner. You need to get back in control when you feel tedious, hectic, or imperfect. Those things that hold value in life needs time, effort and it might also discomfort is along the way, but in all, this should not stop you from being the person you want to be by making your lifestyle modification and being productive
There are some things you can do if you want to have control over your life.
1) Take control of your life: what does taking control means to you, is it the ability to keep your negative behavior in check, regulate your present, or do you want more motivation?. You'll need to work through multiple challenges of you want to take control of your life, building self-confidence and taking action by determining what you want to take control over.
2) Accept yourself: You have to know and accept your strength and limitations because that Is the first step to succeeding in anything you want to do. Accept not only the good side of you but also the bad too, try to understand why you do what to do, and try to forgive yourself because self-criticism feeling guilty is unproductive. Improve what you don't like, and try to comprehend that you have done the best you could, invariably reminding yourself that there are healthier ways to work things out for yourself.
3) Consider your values: Get your priorities by determining what your values are, know the things that are important to you, or might be happiness, freedom, money, Family, etc. Think about what you can do to support your values, whichever one it could be. Decide what you will have to do to stimulate your self-esteem and satisfaction with life, then decide about the person you want to be in terms of behavioral patterns and the life you could have after that.
4) Cultivate good character traits: You will gain more control over your life when you improve beneficial character traits and virtues. This is because it will give you the courage, wisdom, and self-discipline to obtain your goals.
courage: Having courage will give you the strength to attain what you want or need despite some form of accomplishment.
Wisdom: This will help you to gain knowledge and experience to carry out your service to humanity effectively. You can gain wisdom by trying new things, it might be a trial and error, but in the process, you'll gain more experience.
self-discipline: This is mandatory in gaining control over your life because this will help you to put all your intention into action. You'll practice achieving smaller goals on the way to accomplishing a larger vision.
5) Decide what motivates you: Think about what you would do in life that will make you feel good because many of us have a passion, I.e something that will inspire you as well as skills and talents that drive you to succeed.
6) Control of your emotions: Improper emotions can harm your ability to attain your goals. Know how to respond to your feelings in a way that is healthy and helpful to you. Don't let your emotion determine your response to a situation.
7) let go of baggage: In one of my articles, I talk about letting go of baggage - THE HEAVY BURDEN. Sometimes it's difficult to let go of tough times because you have the feelings that define you or you may be afraid to be without them and you may have the feeling that it doesn't determine your worth. Learning how to let go of baggage will help you to control your life. Though making amends may not repair a defect, but it can help you to let go of the past and move on without having to judge yourself.
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These are all great pointers for us to start to assume the control back in our lives instead of giving it away!! hehehe
but what i really enjoy is your little catch phrase at the bottom! How you don't allow fears and doubts to stop you from writing! and love the mystery of it all hehehehehe
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for the top image - I see that you created it - but be sure to always let the readers know how you're creating it. So that we can know it's a proper use of the image! :)
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Hawuu! That's little phrase also serve as inspiration to me, yeah, I'm bigger than my fear and doubt... hehehe
About the top image??, It was created on canva apk, I'll make sure to always give more clarification on my image next time, thanks for the observation ma'am.
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hehehe wonderful!!! yes ...and be sure that if you're using images to make a compilation image, that they are always free source images
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We would want our lives to be perfect in a way buy sometimes we need to accept some things in life and work into being a wonderful person.
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Exactly, everything cannot be perfect , but when we are positive minded, the imperfections will be perfected if we don't think about the flaws.
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A man who has no control over his emotions, will not be able to predict his,own future. To own and direct your life, it's important you don't let circumstances drive you like the wind. Stand back and take time before you react
I appreciate your contribution, that's why we should not be a victim to our circumstances..
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One of the most powerful lessons that I've learned in life is one of your suggestions above. 🦏 To control my emotions! When we allow our emotions to take hold of us - oh... they can be very strong and very deadly! But remaining at peace and allowing our mind to dictate the next action is a great train to exhibit!
What a beautiful contribution, even if there's a need for us to take a deep breath for like 5minutes , that will be better.. because it will also help us to cool our never.
When we act emotionally, it will rather result into a negative outcome, that's why it's mandatory to learn how to control our emotions.
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These are really nice ways of being in control of yourself. One way I also see is by telling yourself who you are and what you want to be as well.
Nice one dear, dropped by from Dreemport.
That's nothing but the truth, and once you're able jave control of your life, you'll see more to be grateful for about life.
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This is a really great write-up dear, it was my pleasure reading through 🥰🥰.
Another wonderful article shared in Dreemport @maryjacy 🙂 I can relate to a lot of what you have shared. I think taking control of my life was a big one. I discovered that I had some hormonal imbalances that were causing disruption to my sense of well-being and correcting that did me the world of good and brought the real me back into focus 😍 This had the positive knock-on effect too of taking me from reactive to responsive and allowed me to have far greater control over how I respond to my emotions instead of react through them. A very important differentiation. And finally, I think another big one is letting go of baggage... I have never been one to hold a grudge or dwell too much on past negativity. I mean I'm human, right, so I am affected, of course, but I realise that we have to pick our battles and sometimes we can accept that we will lose a battle in order to win the eventual war.
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Nice contribution from you, when we keep on thinking about our limitations, it will keep drilling a hole within us, no matter how painful the past maybe, we don't have to hold on to it. The more we hold on to it try more we are weight down emotionally and physically.
It's not always an easy thing to let go, but it's important. We have to drop all those heavy loads if we want to move.
Letting go doesn't mean you're a loser, but it shows how strong you are to face whatever comes your way, this also applies to your contribution.
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What can I say? Sometimes we mess it all up, but being able to keep ourselves in check and following our own principles matters a lot.
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As humans, we are bound to make mistakes, but we should not judge ourselves for our past mistakes, instead, we should look for a way to rectify those errors without letting our past to control our emotions.
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These are marvelous tips, I think I have been trying to work on controlling my emotions but it has been hard, I keep trying though.
Let go of baggage and remove all negativity are my biggest traits!
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If we don't master out emotions, then these emotions will master and overwhelm us. Fantastic post and i absolutely agree with the pointers. Bravo💗👏
All things we should be doing! But wisdom... Sometimes that can be hard to obtain 😂
These are beautiful and achievable points on how to take control of our lives.
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Therefore we have to focus on the present, thinking about the past will only draw us back.
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Absolutely the back is a waste of time