hi, @macoolette
sorry to bother you.
I have a favor to ask.
I you have some time, could you please check Discord.
I need some help.
maybe you could help in my case.
I would choose the 3rd option:
"I actually thought of not giving this at all because I don't have to but I love you so I am sharing what I can."
It is not about the amount, it is about the intention.
And, in some cases (like a war), for some people, a sack of rice may worth more than gold.
I replied in Discord...
I hope everyone sees every gift that way and not think of always taking more.
Happy holidays!