It is up to each of us to decide until what point we reveal the deep and personal. But this is exactly what you are talking about, coming out and not being hidden, You said: still was missing something, when you find your first girlfriend... that something missing was not being ashamed taking her at hands in public, so the same, not be hidden when you want to talk about your experience!
The number of readers... the same as in music when we perform. Until there is one person listening to our performance, it is worth playing the music :)
So true!
Yes exactly. I think I am still struggeling with beeing myself and not going back to the cage I know so well at some days. So yes, I think to be able to continue beeing yourself, it´s important that you don´t hide for your feelings and that you just speak out freely what is important for you.
Therefore I am happy that I did it.
And even happier that people like you encourage me in it.
I thank you from the bottom of my heart.
And you´re also so right about your last sentence! It was worth writing all this. You made my day. :)
Constant battles, I understand.
We all have our different cages to some extent, that are there "waiting for us" to give a fake shelter when fear and insecurities attack. But remember (talking to me too) there is no real joy! Once we sort out all that ( as it would be that easy hahha) and live in peace of mind and joy, and we see how it is reflected to others, no way back :)))
Yeah. I think really bad stuff, you never get rid of it totally. It will always come back sometimes. But if you can live with it, and don´t let it control yourself, everything´s fine. :)
Yes you are totally right, but yes its not easy. :D