I relate so much to this! Personally, I never ascribed to the "slay queen" mentality. It's fake and seems very superficial in encouraging you to have a better life. I'm definitely more like you, an outsider with my own values.
It came from embracing my unique self, staying grounded, and living with intention. People respect me, not because I’m part of a crowd, but because I stand for something authentic.
It took me a long time to understand that that's indeed how things work. I think we recognize what's genuine around us and we're drawn to it inevitably. :) I really enjoyed this post. Welcome to the community :)
Yes, you are right honestly. But I believe, there is a reason for everything. I probably wouldn't have been able to look inward and find myself if I never tried being them in the first place. And yes, we recognize what's genuine around us and are inevitably drawn to it, I love that statement. Thank you