I think being sucked into the mess of other people's life is harder, when you yourself are a happy and positive person who just get up and do the things that cultivate happiness, as in the case of my mum. I'm just better at keeping things and people at bay.
I always fall asleep meditating while lying on the floor
It is super relaxing, but you'd be surprised to know how many people have difficulty switching off (and remaining still in that position).
Have a nice day:)