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RE: ☃️ FIRST SNOW OF THE SEASON ~ come and check out how it became 9 CM of SNOW ❄️ on 1 November 2024

in Photography Lovers3 months ago

Oh my, you can have some fun with the different currencies? Or does it create more problems?

I hope for your sake that you will settle down a bit. My situation is nothing as extreme as yours, and I am already getting tired only after 3 years.

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Somedays it creates problems… hahaha but we manage.

Thank you ☺️ much appreciated!
I am craving for just 1 year… hahaha wishing for longer is already a big wish at the moment.
We will find a way. Positive thinking. 🤞🏻

 3 months ago  

Positive thinking is the only option, yes! It does not help to be negative as it will only make the situation worse. But I understand that craving for stability!

We try to think positive as much as we can. But hubby not finding a job for the last 1,5 years is hard.
If he finds one, it will dictate where we end up next. So it is out of our hands for a large part.
We do have plans if he can’t find one in the next 2 months. Then we dictate what is next… at keast we can try. Hahaha better than not trying and sitting here with negative thoughts.
So up to positive thoughts and energy! 🥂

 3 months ago  

That is exactly the right frame of mind! Same here, to a lesser degree. I am applying for jobs across our country, so if I find anything, I will also need to travel, and with my fiance still not being able to move with me, it takes a toll on one's positive thinking! Sometimes you really just want to settle down and the uncertainty drains you.

I know and understand fully.
You said it, it is the uncertainty that drains one.
One day we both will settle.
How long until she can move with you?

In our worst case scenario, hubby will move alone for work to another country I can’t move to (easily). Sometimes you have to do what you have to do…

Positive thoughts do help 😊 even though hard sometimes.

 2 months ago  

Same here, as my work is a 1200km away from my fiance. So we have to manage, and negative thoughts only help destroy the relationship. Been there done that. It does not help.

Plans are constantly changing, so I really do not know yet. I have some interesting work that might plan out for me, but that means moving again. So, for now, we are also in the air about when things will settle down.

But positive thoughts!

It is a long distance. Luckily you can see each other and manage.
Yes, me too… it doesn’t help.

I feel you. The world and everything around us seems to move and change quickly lately. Let’s see what happens. Crossing my fingers for you something will work out.

Take care!