I love old cemeteries, just so quiet and peaceful. Sorry to hear about the shoulder, but do anything possible to rehab it unless you have a torn rotator cuff. Surgery can make things worse at times!
As far as the wife goes I'm sure she understood. Having been married before I know exactly what you were thinking! lol
I have bene doing the physical therapy exercises that I was given a few years back almost every day since then, and more so since it started aching, but it seems to be only gettign worse, lets see what the Dr says on Tuesday, i am hoping not to need a surgery, need a break fromt hem LOL