But personally, they don’t sit well with me. As a result, I’ve naturally distanced myself from communities with requirements that I don’t feel comfortable.
Personally, I just steer clear of them. There are plenty of places we can post to, and we don't have to agree with each other as long as it's done in a respectful way. But I do notice there is sometimes bullying involved, which is uncalled for.
It's similar to real world. As you wrote there are a lot of other communities that each of us feels comfortable with and also we can make one by ourself if we wish 😉 Ja, good to use time wisely; a bit complaining and then move forward to a nice direction.