The world is full of very different types of people as you say, but to be honest, those that you speak of who are happy to tear things down just because they throw a tantrum and don't get their way? Well, which universe are they living in because life doesn't work like that.
Each of us has that choice - to take ownership or to shift blame for our own mistakes. If you aren't willing to right your own wrongs through effort to do better, then you'll be dumped in with the others just like you and I doubt that's a very fun place to be.
People tend to be treated commensurate to the behaviours they display and that's what I react to also.
Do the wrong thing in my community and it'll be addressed. Rectify it and there's no issue. Rant at me and there'll be action, I can assure you.
The thing is, as I've said before, I don't give a fuck if no one but me posts in my communities. I created them for me. If people want to share them with me that's ok of course, but they will abide by my rules. I don't force people to post in them and there are other places they can go...I don't understand how people feel it's legit to come along and fuck up my house and then rant about being addressed. Wankers.
I totally get it. It's just so bizarro world like that these people can't see the errors of their ways. Makes me lift my eyebrows. Your communities are great because you work hard at keeping them that way. These people need to learn to have a little respect for other people's space.
Makes me (want to) lift my axe...then drop it with force in a well-aimed manner.
They will not.