Yes truth is very subjective but I believe truth can be black or white, plain and simple. A girl who asks if she is fat, did so because she needs to know the truth. It's not our position to determine what we feel the other person wishes to hear. It's our position to say the truth regardless of how it might make them feel. You just might be surprised, telling her that she is fat may not even make her feel bad but might make her see the need to watch her weight whereas the little or small lie might make her continue to indulge in the habits that makes her fat. You see? Our duty is to speak the truth and leave what happens to the receiver. They may not admit it but later on, they would come to appreciate the truth.
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