Yes. I agree with you. It's not always that simple. I think many educated nd progressive thinking parents also understand the principle explained in the article but to really make it work to every children is not easy.
Each child is different. For my daughter it always end up worse if I take it away alltogether.
It is better if I treat it like a negotiation with an adult. Both of us must give in a little, otherwise the resistance is even bigger and I'd end up screaming probably.
The problem is just that sometimes we don't have abundance of time to negotiate because we're in a hurry for something else.
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