I recognized your humanity sense. And that is a good quality and difficult to find nowadays. Like I said I don't judge you as a human. Also I don't think that the two users (the current one and the baby's mother), since they would do anything to fix their problem. We don't need to be like a government where we know exactly the % of the country's funds being allocated to an area. But maybe adding everything to the same bag is confusing and chaotic! We should help this couple ? For sure we do. But am not sure if we can use the DHF for that, since its function is to promote hive... I am not old in the blockchain like you or Marky or other people around, but since I joined I have seen many people going through bad situations. Imagine if all of them submit a proposal?
How do charitable institutions work? maybe we can create a hive based one. A fund with donations and people submit proposals for that fund? Again, I am empathic for the cause, I am not playing against it!
A charitable DHF proposal for multiple distributions will be overwhelmed almost immediately, I don't recommend it. Right now when people come to me I have to triage and see what can go where how. A lot of people on Hive aren't doing well. A non-DHF charity that is connected to Hive can work, however. There is no good answer for this topic in general, its the wrong decision no matter what decision is made.