I wrote a freewrite about an experience my cousin had that you might appreciate:
https://steemit.com/hive-114105/@owasco/we-are-young-a-freewrite
I think if I am ever in that position I will answer that my preferred pronoun is whichever pronoun the speaker would like to use to refer to me. They'd all choose female of course, unless they were idiots.
LOL.
Ok. Thanks!