That was probably the most gripping post I've read so far on Steemit. I can really appreciate that you went so far into detail about your story. And I love the touch of humor in your writing. Works well among the serious stuff.
It's sad that there's such a desperation to make money in these times. You get hit with a large bill, and yeah you're screwed. This paycheck-to-paycheck thing is a nightmare. But thank you for talking about this subject. It's something that I don't think has been widely discussed yet, though it should be.
May I ask you two questions about camming (out of curiosity)? These are a couple things I've always wondered.
What prevents guys from screen capping your cam sessions to either watch later (for free) or post online for everyone to see? Did you ever worry about your nudes being posted somewhere else?
If you put your picture out there, there's always a chance someone could run into you in person after seeing you on one of those sites. Were you ever worried that you would encounter or be stalked by some creep?
Hey, thanks for reading/listening <3
To answer your questions, I suppose they could screencap my cam sessions, but I think most of the camming websites have features to prevent that. I decided before I started camming that I wouldn't really care if someone I knew saw my nudes. They can think what they want about me, and always will. I am who I am.
I threat of a stalker--and I've only had one (who to my knowledge was never aware of my camming, he was just a weirdo)--never concerned me any more than plane crashes or terrorist attacks. My name was fake on all the camming sites, so it would have been hard to track me down anyway. If someone saw a picture and then recognized me and then ALSO happened to be violent and dangerous, that would have sucked, but it seems like a long shot for all that to happen, especially with all the cammers out there now.
Thanks for replying. You're braver than I am. I would be too paranoid about those situations, however unlikely they are. But then again, I am the type that is paranoid about terrorist attacks and plane crashes.