"It always amazes me how many arguments against Christianity base themselves on things that are NOT Christianity."
I find this remark typical, and it wreaks of confirmation bias. You cannot discern truth by examining only 1 side of the story.
There are numerous reasons to disbelieve Christianity. I finally saw "the light" after 20+ years of drinking the koolaid. As to the validity of Paul being a legitimate apostle, read Jesus Words Only by Douglas Del Tonto, and about how the Council of Nicaea (i.e. Constantine) orchestrated the Cannon in 325 AD see God's Secretary by Adam Nicholson Those are only 2 example of works that tainted the sweetness of the koolaid that ultimately led to my epiphany that religion is the same as government == a means of controlling the masses. Another extremely important work is The Most Dangerous Superstition by Larken Rose. The later applies not only to religion but any hierarchical organization that equates labels of authority with trustworthiness. Better to train yourself in the skills of critical thinking using the Trvium Method.
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