To be honest I prefer the word cunt to pussy but realise that I am probably in a minority here.
:)
That said I don't generally find offensive words offensive ~ they are just a string of letters and, ultimately, to be offended or not is a choice.
However context is key. I tend to swear for humour and added punctuation and prefer to argue my point without using bad language.
Each to their own.
xox
I wrote a piece about the word Fuck, a while back, here which may be of interest.
Cunt is a fantastic word. But I'm from Ireland where people often greet their best friends by calling them a cunt. We even use that cunting word as a verbal adjective at times.
It really is a great word though, even just the sound of it. I wish I had enough knowledge of linguistics and psychology to explain exactly why cunt is such a great word.