Yes it was, but I must admit (looking back, because back then I clearly had no idea) he mostly did things to feed his own ego or fulfil his own pleasures. He is what we call a twisted soul, and he will never get better, because after many many years he still did things to me when I got together with my current boyfriend, that used to be his friend many years ago (when I was still a couple with him). He could not accept the fact that I was with him now, and his soul even got darker when the years passed. Unbelievable that people can still hold on to things after so many years. Luckily he's far far away from me now, and I hope never to see him again :) We build up a new life, and it really was needed to leave the environment of all these toxic people from the past. That was my cure to deal with it. Slowly I found back myself :)
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Thank goodness I never had to meet people with such dark souls. Most times, we only realize how much harm a relationship has cause when we walk away from it and I am glad you took that bold step.
I can't imagine how much of a struggle it was back then to stay safe and always from such a person (while you were still living in the same environment with him), I am glad you moved away from such toxicity and were able to find yourself again, that really is key!!