Hi there! I'm Jamie ( @tgjamieerin ), you might have seen a few of my posts by now since I joined 10 days ago. I've been gaining some Steem so to speak! ;)
I'm 24 years old, I live in St. Louis, MO and I live with two girlfriends that I make porn with, and a cat. I also date two local girls and one in Vegas! I never gave you all a verification photo when I first joined, so here's that!
I grew up in a racist hick town in Michigan that Malcolm X nicknamed "White City". My father is an alcoholic auto mechanic that I haven't spoken to in years at this point, and my mom is an extremely hard working health care employee that I check up on every few weeks usually. My extended family doesn't care much for me, nor does my immediate.
I grew from video game loving nerdy boy, to skateboarding addict and fruity high school dropout, to porn creating, crypto investing cute girl, current Psychology student and future Sex and Relationship therapist that plays competitive video games.
I started my transition about two and a half years ago, and I'd been thinking about it since I was 14-15 or so. I played some sports growing up like a year of soccer, chess, three years of hockey, ten years of skateboarding, a year of tennis and Greco Roman wrestling too. These things don't make you a man, these things make someone who's confused about the space they belong in, feel even more out of place in intimate settings like locker rooms. I dealt with it alright and got in a lot of fist fights, and had a small group of friends. I smoked cigarettes for almost ten years and quit using electronic cigarettes! I'll be sure to have some posts about that time in my life soon enough, there's a lot in that industry! Not all good!
Things never were particularly hard or easy for me as far as what I've been granted, sometimes things were easy and I rode the wave and enjoyed myself, other times I made things harder on myself accidentally. I have high ACT scores and attended three different high schools. I've lived on both coasts. I know how to clean a rifle and love handguns, but don't use or own any myself. Hunting isn't for me and I'm a part time vegetarian, but I can't resist duck and lamb on a good night out. I've been playing Street Fighter and other competitive fighting games for over 9 nine years around the country in tournaments ranging from small local events to world championships in Vegas with over a quarter of a million dollars at stake for first place. No notable victories in tournament yet, but I can hold my own with the best any day! I also love first and third person shooters like Counter-Strike, Quake and Overwatch!
Currently most of my focus is on school and keeping my grades up just below the roof over my head, it's a delicate balance but I'm hoping things change for the better the next year or so, I'm quite hopeful! To help pay my bills I do porn shoots for various studios around the country, and make private or freelance content for fans of mine on places like Twitter, or maybe even potentially Steemit if that interest is garnered. I also like modelling, and photographers that approach me I definitely am open to working with, It's so much fun to get all cute for a camera and see what comes out! Like this Christmas set I did in early January this year, my favorite from it is this one.
I also do things like professional domination, sugar baby / sugar daddy relationships, escort work, whatever is related for the most part I've done or do. It's a ton of fun! And it is actual work, I made a recent post about why what I do isn't free!
That's a lot of me in a short amount of time, I hope I left some things open ended and made you think of some good questions for me, I'm very excited to be here on SteemIt and believe blockchain is the way technology will be advancing for years to come, and I don't want to miss out!!! I'm currently mining Burst with 1609GB plotted, and mining using Nicehash and my gaming rig for extra portfolio money along the way! If you want to see more of my content please follow me on Steemit and on Twitter (very NSFW, handle is the same)
For those of you that would prefer to anonymously support my work rather than vote on an erotic image you can either send me Steem or SBD to @tgjamieerin or Bitcoin to 12bvvoM1yzEw8mjNoSMqdXymrvv5EG9FAe
Much love, your local crypto slut - <3
Holy Crap! Such warm reception, I would like to thank @steemitqa and @sykochica for helping me out so much with my journey on Steem.
I'd also like this to continue as long as the post is eligible for rewards, I want to answer more questions! I know you're curious, don't be shy! I'll be around a lot today! <3 ;)
Hello @tgjamieerin you're welcome! and glad to see your Journey in SteemIt going well. If you want to continue to answer questions feel free to keep going! ;)
I got a good laugh out of "I'm a part time vegetarian", me too :)
Sounds like a hopefully blessed life :) I guess if I have a serious question it would be: is there really a good way to be sensitive about somebody's gender identity in advance? Just always ask if you're serious about being friends? For me as somebody who this stuff hasn't been very personal for, and didn't take probably seriously enough at first, I'm trying to be give the proper respect to how important it is for others.
And sorry if you get this kind of question all the time and it's annoying ^^;
This isn't an annoying question and I don't think it will ever be to be honest. This is a relieving question, and the answer is simply to ask in a polite manner such as,
"Excuse me Name, what pronouns do you use?"
It's that simple, and it goes a very long way! It shows that you intend to lend respect from the get go, not have it pulled out of you. Thank you very much for the question!
Excuse me, Jamie, what pronouns do you use?
I use She/her pronouns, thank you!
Well since I'm from Texas I'm going to have to go with pardon me and try to give it a twang ;) but the rest sounds good!
Do you remember the exact moment you became the most comfortable in your own skin? Or the thought that helped you get there?
I can talk for myself, i'm out of the closet for 4 years now... I accepted myself because I had not much left to loose, and a part of my life wasn't fulfill. When I get a rush of gender dysphoria I just go out as a woman... the way I feel. And I pass pretty well so now it's kind of fun for me. a little bit shy, but damn I don't give a fuck, I'm a princess and when I feel like that, it doesn't matter what others think of me. and like I say: 1 happy day as woman beats the crap of 100 day as a sad man. nikky xxxx
Absolutely! I'll have to make sure to follow you on my account <3
I don't think there was an exact moment of clarity, it was more the thought of "Something isn't right, I'm not sure what, but I need to explore whatever it is and find out.". A good friend of mine gave me some resources and links to research at seventeen and I figured it might be something to consider in the future.
Greetings fellow steemian. What was your favorite skateboard trick? Did you look up to male skaters or female skaters?
Thank you for the excellent question! My favorite skateboard trick will always be a nice clean 360 Flip, there's just something so stylish and fun about them that never gets old.
I mostly looked up to male skaters because female ones were so hard to come by, Elissa Steamer is basically the only one I could think of from when I was growing up, but she did shred, I had a bit of a gay crush on her for a bit haha.
Yeah she did shred. I'm kind of jealous of girl skaters these days they look like they are having so much fun. That's kind of why I quit it just wasn't fun anymore and I was tired of getting stared at when I was in stores like I was going to steal something also. I love watching girls skateboard especially Nora Vasconcellos. I kind of want to be them but I am asexual.
Cool video! I might steal that idea and show you all my ride!
Yes that would be rad!
Welcome!
Thank you very much!
How many steem do you make after a long night of escorting?
About half as much as I would like to!
Don't have a solid number for me? Lol
Is Steem stable at the time of equation? If so, about 600-1200.
Is there a future in Escorts and Steem payments to them ? ;-)
I don't see why there wouldn't be, I already advertise that I'm willing to sell used underwear, sex toys and other items via Crypto, I'd gladly take Steem for dates.
Hey, good answer for me lol.
Why's that? :)
I mean it's a solid number. I'm weighing in on whether I should continue posting or escort for steem. Clearly escorting is way more lucrative.
St Louis eh? Do you know Koz?
I don't! I did just have coffee with @sykochica today though :)
Which was a blast! ALL the steemit talk! lol
I am beyond Jelly! Such good people....and in the same room.
Nah She's a IRL friend I hung out with out your way some years back, possibly hangs in similar scenes but that could be a wild assumption on my part. anywho, thanks for sharing. I look forward to your future posts
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I love that you've found a way to pay for creating your life - and that you're open, audacious and honest about it. Beaming you love. I haven't done my first post yet - that's the plan for today!!!
I believe you can do it!
Could my virtual being have a temporary girlfriend?
If you're looking for an escort I just setup shop. Just saying.
Typed "girlfriend" not "escort".
Why yes you could ;)
Wonderful! :)
Welcome to Steemit !:)
Thank you very much!
Great to see the @askme #ama in motion. I let a few people know (in person) when I was at Consensus. So watch for those potential surprises when they are ready! :)
I might end up seeing you at the Steemy Summer party! :)
Cool! :)
@virtualgrowth good to see you here buddy! I had been telling you about the #ama and it's finally off! I believe we have SteemShop lined up and the 'local bitcoin story' shortly! :) Looking forward to what you have!
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How did you find SteemIt ? and what got you into the Porn side of things ?
I found Steemit via Youtube, from watching @trevonjb and @britvr and learning about crypto I might want to invest in, then I decided to see how a few posts went and I've fallen in love!
I found porn because I figured it was just a way to get paid for my love of exhibitionism, if I'm going to take all this effort to make home porn, why not get paid!
@trevonjb is amazing. I watch all his videos. I'll check out @britvr . Thanks for the answer's!
Makes sense to me.
What's wrong with being an alcoholic auto mechanic?
They tend to lose fingers!
haha that was my first thought!
Who let the new Joke Moon in? :)
There is always one lol :)
Welcome!
Upvote..! Upvote ..!! <3 ur mind is a treasure..!
do you not feel you are been abused by doing porn,how do you feel about dreaming of a tall dark man,as quinten crisp says ,our dreams never come true ,he says i dream of a tall dark man, but i can never have him ,because if he were to go with me then he wouldn't be straight,at least he was sensible and honest to himself about it.
I'm not abused by doing porn at all! Anything I do is on my terms, with my express permission, and nothing I do is something I haven't negotiated and wanted to do with everyone involved!
I'm not sure what you're getting at with the second part, but I do like tall dark men!
simply this jamie straight men do not go with transgenders,not unless they have been deceived and dont know ,but i must say you have deceived no one,you have told us that you are transgender and i respect you for that.
NOPE.
That's not the case in the slightest bit. I'm a woman. I'm not deceiving anybody whether or not I tell them I'm trans up front. They are attracted to women, they are attracted to me, once they understand that I have a penis, most of the time that attraction does not go away. Maybe don't know before I tell them and once I do they maintain their interest.
The stigma that dating trans women is a homosexual act is something that gets girls like me murdered and harassed on a daily basis. Look up the "Trans panic defense" and do a little research. We're the ones being tricked, not them.
i think we will leave at that jamie,if you don't understand what i'm mean, its got nothing to do with your sex.
I guess we're not seeing eye to eye, based on your terminology and base of your argument I think you have more research to do anyways, have a nice day :)
Transgender day of remembrance list of murdered individuals keeps getting longer every year. Killed simply for being who we are.
You've inspired the post I'm going to make today, thank you!
that comes as no surprise ,glad to be of some help .lol.make sure you send me a copy.
I'll drop you a mention :)
oh i'm honoured,i see your looking for support of others, not me if i disagree with someone ,thats between me and them no one else.
I'm not looking for support of others, because I know I'm right. I'm using you as an example of bad thought process and terrible mentality regarding the agency of your own body.
I'm only a quarter part vegetarian and three quarters italian 😎😎😎
100 Upvotes! Yay! Thank you so much everyone, I'd love to answer more questions <3
Great post and thanks for doing this. My question is: Do you find that certain parts of the U.S is more forgiving to the LGBT community, then other parts ? Not sure if my question makes total sense. Let me know!
This makes total sense, yes, where I grew up I would have never started my transition, I received lots of threats and catcalls on the sidewalk already. Where I am in St. Louis currently is very nice and accepting, I've never felt out of place here in this city, whereas if I drove an hour away to another part of the state, I would be sure to have a knife on me for protection.
Thank you for the answer! Amazing , how you can be in one part of the city being safe and not in another and not be safe.
Also, pinging @nspart .
Thank you! He was the inspiration behind my latest post about sex work!
Love the ending there. Do you plan on recommending SteemIt to peeps ?
I've already begun recruiting. I got my girlfriend @ooxide to start posting content and want to get some of my twitter followers involved too! I'm loving helping this place grow in any ways I can! It's becoming a second home!
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