@ashleykalila I'm also a big fan of being as honest as possible when it comes to my feelings in the moment, especially when I feel that it was inspired by another's actions. I've had my fair share of difficulties with those who either didn't quite understand that they were doing something wrong... or did know that it was wrong, but couldn't drop their ego enough to say "sorry."
The responsibility you can take (as you said here) is sharing how you feel, why you feel that way, and what that other person can do to avoid this issue.
I also wanted to note that I've often fallen into the trap of thinking that someone else's actions are the result of how I feel. This isn't the case because no one can actually MAKE me feel any particular way. I'm feeling what I'm feeling and no one else besides me is in control of that. Thus, when I do share what I'm feeling, I really try to come from a place of saying: "When you do this, I feel this" rather than "you make me feel this when you do this."
It's subtle but it definitely makes a difference in the long run.
Great post @ashleykalila! I'm following :)
PS: I'd love to hear your thoughts about my recent post: Want To Get What You Don't Already Have? The Art Of Compersion Will Get You There!