hi @tarazkp
I often feel like parenting is like a timewarp. The first six days feels like an eternity - then the first six weeks of sleep deprivation feel like they last forever. Slowly though, time speeds up, and you get little windows of time back. Until they are growing up so fast in front of your eyes.
As long as you keep making the effort for the things you want in life (like date nights), it will start to happen. My husband and I used to love snowboarding together before we had kids, but for years it felt like that would never happen again because something would always take priority. Now they are older and we all go snowboarding together as a family. It was all so worth it.
-Bec