You can never "really help others", as only they can help themselves. We do have to be selfish in order to get to a place where we are truly happy, after all that is the reason we are here, to be as happy as we can be and enjoy every moment to its fullest! so if we don't take care of ourselves first and get to that place of happiness and higher vibration how could we possibly try to help others? once you have achieved this everyone around you will be touched by the love and happiness that shines forth from you. Do not carry other people burdens, return them to their rightful owners, they are not yours to carry. Blessings!
Very well said - thank you @claudiaz I appreciate and value your lovely support and input xxx
you are very welcome Jaynie.
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