Okay had to respond fast to headline and then read!
You are really right. Man I have been there for sure... hard little mindset to lift yourself out of sometimes isn't it?
I think that statement.... not attracted to you at all... could easily have been meant as a "we're friends right?" kinda thing.
I tried to burn the bridge because thinking about it has been making me depressed, but heard from one of our mutual friends that she loves me as a friend and doesnt want to lose that but shes just not attracted to me.