Thanks, Lydon, for this very constructive and encouraging post. You've hit multiple nails on the head here.
Patience and persistence. A gentle (but honest) answer turns away wrath. Having other family members present as a buffer. A little bit of shunning if nothing else works.
Hold the course, my friend. You've charted a good one.
Thank you for your thoughtful encouragement brother. You always have wise and true insight.