Some bad juju and you want to know why you cannot sleep? My son has had some horror shows with one in particular woman who was Bipolar and would cut herself. There are so many freaks out there you need to be careful. I think it is better in some cases to remain single and find someone without hunting them online.
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I have zero expectations of meeting the love of my life on there but I do enjoy going to dinner with someone even if when they turn up I can see that I am not at all attracted to them. I am sure some of them feel the same way when they see me. The point is to just be yourself, see if you have something in common, and if you do, great... run with it.
I will not tolerate any crazy though and I tend to either never go out with them a 2nd time or just get rid of them once anything even mildly psychotic pops up. I'm not trying to be anyone's therapist and I definitely don't need a stalker
Well that is the right attitude to have and just enjoy meeting someone new as it is a fun experience not knowing what to expect. I would have thought you being over 40 there should be plenty of divorcees around that age group or maybe it is limited pickings due to your location. I have never looked into this as Tinder is not something I have seen being already married. I know my son used it and had a very rocky relationship and is now taking a long break.
oh there are plenty of options man. I do, however, tend to shy away from the people that have kids and perhaps I shouldn't do that since people tend to at the age that I would be dating anyway. It's not fair, but if I run into a woman that has never been married and doesn't have kids by the time they are 40 I probably unfairly, presume there is something wrong with them. But this isn't based on nothing, a lot of times there actually is something wrong with them at least from my perspective. However, they likely think the same thing about me haha
Yes I suppose someone who has not been married or got kids by the age of 40 you would ask questions not that there is anything wrong with this. My one niece by marriage is single and she chose a career and scuba diving over relationships.