As always raymond great post.
I wish more people could understand to let go sometimes instead of trying(and failing) to control everything and becoming miserable with life, it's easy for me to say as i'm lazier than a rug on sedatives.
Even having the most controlled, perfect life will always run into the force of randomness and you can never plan for something like that.
You're so right, and, there's no such thing as perfection! There is always something to balance the other out. I think anyway. You seem to think like me dude :)
Great minds think alike :P