Hi,there. This is my third day on steemit, and I am hanging out in the trending section getting to know the steemians as I was browsing through the posts I came across yours and I thought it was a really good one.
I want to touch on two things:
- Nothing is as exciting and confusing as embarking on the journey of getting to know someone in an intimate way, I deeply enjoy it. Even though there are doubts and fears that pop up, which tend to muddy the waters, and cause stresses that we can sometimes not fight back. But as they say, falling in love drives us a bit mad, and this is a perfect opportunity to come to terms with your imperfections. The Japanese fix pottery with by melting a little bit of gold or silver down, and then using it as the medium to glue the pot back together again. This is what it is like, and I would rather have cracks that form in me, which flaunts my gold and my silver. With honesty you will find the beauty in any person, this is how the gold shines through us. Selfless Giving is how we bring a person to understand their value, and this is the silver.
- There are different Kinds of men, there are those who wish to impose themselves onto a woman, to domineer her and govern over her. To force her to submit to their will. This man is a weakling, and most likely a coward. In the extreme they are the ones who beat on their significant other, while towards the mild forms you will find relentless criticism and near evil emotional manipulation. All of this to mask insecurities and uphold their fragile egos. When this man expects change it is to conform to his warped view of the world, this is the change that must be faught off and if you ever find such a man in your life it is urgent that you cut him out as fast as possible
If the change is for the better, like being encouraged to get your freelancing service off of the ground, or getting back into the swing of your art that you used to love so much. This change needs to be embraced as it will inevitably cause the relationship to grow deeper and become stronger.
thank you for your good work.